Those who do not understand the importance of foreplay in lovemaking phase of are actually missing a lot. Foreplay is the basis of lovemaking, and without it, the whole act in bed fails to bring you the right results. The absence of foreplay makes a woman feel 'used'. Even if she goes through orgasm, she may not appreciate you for that. When you make her realize that the great pleasing moments she had was solely due to your love towards her, no matter mere love as a female partner, the feeling she would have will be quite different. She should feel that she is being cared for and loved as an equal pleasure sharing partner.
Not all women respond equally to invitation, no matter how legitimate or timely it is. They have to go through an arousal phase before they could properly respond to their male partner's act of entering her. The longer the foreplay, the better will be the results and her arousal state. In return, he will also benefit greatly with her loving response and cooperation. He should not forget the fact that entering her without proper arousal could become painful for both and the act which must provide immense pleasure will become a 'pleasure seeking' act.
Women are not like men who, with little stimulation, can become operative and go right for the start. Unless she is aroused properly, her vaginal secretion will no longer lubricate the vaginal walls. When he pampers her before with appropriate foreplay techniques, she will get ready for your entry and feel all the pleasure that offers.
Start taking off her clothes, one by one, while caressing and kissing her body. Before getting her totally naked, spend some time in hugging and kissing. Let her feel that you are taking care of her, allowing her to enjoy every action. As said earlier, almost every woman responds differently; to know when she is getting ready is not difficult since she will come in a 'happy surrendering' state. Once you have gone through a long foreplay, you can enter her. The results will be marvelous.
There are various foreplay techniques, such as kissing different areas of her body, including vagina, touching her intimate points which can be different in different women. You have to discover these intimate points of a woman, which commonly are, apart from clitoris and vaginal area which brings optimum response, neck, ears, breast, nipples, lower abdomen, thighs, lower back, etc. Caressing and kissing these areas can offer her ecstatic pleasure.
Kneading the breast, touching nipples, sucking and caressing, can arouse her tremendously. The optimal arousal response comes when you go further down, down to her vaginal area, especially the clitoris. Here, oral does bring the best results, but you reach clitoris at a much later stage. Clitoris stimulation in the beginning can lessen the pleasing effect on other inferior intimate points. It could be like having foreplay after ending the . So, reach it when you have to. Sometimes, she would get orgasm while you just orally work at clitoris. Well, there are many foreplay techniques which should be practiced for mutual benefit.
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