Nature has gifted us a way to experience moments of intense pleasure which no other act offers. It is also in our own hands as how to take maximum advantage of it. If you are going straight to the without or with little foreplay, you are sure missing a lot. If you adopt and acquaint yourself with the hot foreplay tips and techniques, you are the king at bed. For both of the partners, the lovemaking will become an act offering incredibly passionate time.
You should know the ' points' of your partner. This is applicable to both men and women; discover the most sensitive zones which offer great lovemaking pleasure when touched, licked or kissed. The usual points are breasts, nipples, lips, inner parts of thighs, of course genitals (clitoris and are the most important of all), ear lubes, neck, armpit, buttock, anus and surrounding area, etc. Working on these points can drive your partner wild and intensifies orgasm. While working on these points, you can feel which ones are the points of your partner. Some individuals find working on and around the anus not only increases their pleasure but also makes them reach a powerful orgasm.
Some people like music in the background or some kind of incense to boost their lovemaking mood. This largely depends on one's own feelings, and cannot be generalized as a sure way to please all. However, if you want to impress your partner with special preparations for the lovemaking event, she or he may not only appreciate your move but also feel the atmosphere luring. So, give it a try as a mood setter.
Take care of the way you undress; make it ' undressing', slow, one after the other, raising the temptation of your partner to see more naked areas. Let him or her wait a bit before you reward him or her with more naked area.
Some like to have a passionate bubble bath before starting the actual game. Use sponge with sensual motions on the body of each other. Some special massage techniques can also be luring and offer pleasure. Concentrating on the points, work gently and sexually, kissing and caressing in between. For some, this move can lead to an explosive orgasm.
Oral is one of the greatest foreplay techniques which, if done properly, can offer immense pleasure to both of the partners. This kind of foreplay, where the most sensitive areas can receive imitation of the actual lovemaking phase, can lead to orgasm or can take closer to orgasm. If not the both, it can at least offer intense pleasure before the actual .
A woman's role in oral should be sucking on the , kissing, and licking. Work slowly, and don't start sucking right away. Start with gentle touching, licking and kissing. Tease the male partner, let him feel the urge for more. Gentle flicks of the tongue can be real tempting. Sucking should also be rhythmic, sexy and also imitating the in/out movements while in vagina.
A man's role in oral should be more or less identical to what a woman has to do to please her male partner; just he has to work around the vagina and clitoris instead of the . Once on licking stage, lick as you are licking an ice cream cone. The rest of movements are almost the same. Moreover, some women get excited when men write the alphabet around clitoris with their tongue, try it and find out what your woman has to say.
These are just few tips and techniques from the #1 e-book on Lovemaking i.e. '500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets' that can change your overall experience. The book is written by Michael Webb, a leading relationships expert. This book discusses the importance of romance in life. It is a complete lovemaking manual for those who want to give a new height to their life.